Being a Wallflower Blogger

I have been shy my entire life. I used to force my sister to ask waiters or waitresses at the restaurants to ask where the restroom was for me, because I was too shy and scared to do it myself. And that’s never changed. I was always the quiet kid in class to the point where they my creative writing class joked that I had to be a stoner, because I didn’t talk. When really, I didn’t talk because I was too shy to and didn’t want the attention of my classmates. So I focused on my writing and it’s always been something that I feel no pressure about. Same goes with painting, as you can be open about anything without feeling the pressure of social situations. And I would say this is still a true statement even today with my blog, I’ve become quite a wallflower blogger. I don’t like hyping myself or blog up to others, if someone else enjoys a post then that’s enough… but of course no one is going to read it if you don’t put yourself out there. I got the idea to write this post from From Roses who discussed this same topic over on her blog.

How to Trick People into Thinking You’re an Extrovert When You’re Really an Introvert

This is a skill I’ve been working on for years. As it’s helpful when you’re applying for jobs or trying to meet new people. Now that’s not to say that all introverts are shy and private, while all extroverts are outgoing and talkative. But that’s the stereotype of each. I am an introvert so I recharge when I’m alone, prefer one-on-one conversations, have few relationships but they are really in depth, don’t like attention, and share ideas when prompted. And there’s nothing wrong with that. But sometimes you need to fake being an extrovert in different circumstances.

How to Become Less Camera Shy & Gain Self-Confidence

Since I was in Junior High School, I have always been the one taking the pictures. I have hardly any pictures of myself from those years up until senior year of High School. Mainly because I was never comfortable being in front of the camera, sure I made video blogs or vlogs on and off during that time frame but not photos. And I’m still a little camera shy, which is why I did the 100 Days of Makeup on Instagram to force myself to get used to taking photos of myself. And to just overall gain some confidence in myself as it all roots down to there. I don’t feel confident with my appearance so I never took pictures of myself. Or let anyone take pictures of me. So how do you go from being extremely camera shy to openly wanting to take selfies? This was the mission I set upon myself several months ago. And here’s what I’ve learned.

Interacting With Others Online When You’re Introverted or Shy

I am very introverted and though I’ve spent a large majority of my life online, I never really interacted with anyone. Same goes with in real life. I generally like to keep to myself, which I know some people perceive as being rude. But to be honest, I struggle sometimes just to step outside of my head and say my thoughts out loud as I never know how anyone will take my words. Or when people try to get my input, the words simply don’t come to my mind until after the situation has already passed. Sometimes it feels like pressure and other times it’s an obstacle.  But it’s something I’ve been really pushing myself to actually do in both areas. As how are you going to make friends in either area, if you don’t try?

Blogger That Inspires Me: Jenn Granneman from Introvert, Dear

This is going to be a new monthly series where I’m going to talk about one blogger that has really inspired me in one way or another. I got this idea when I was at Minnesota Blogger Conference, which is where I met Jenn Granneman from Introvert, Dear. She runs a blog that is dedicated to helping people that are introverted and/or highly sensitive. Some of these posts have really helped me or I’ve identified with.